It does not suggest the use of rewards and punishments and rather than consequences, invites the child to be part of the solution with the use of problem solving. If you could say whether you live in the countryside/town/city (and whether close to parks) I could give some ideas of therapeutic activities to do.

If you are able to #TrickOrTreat, please do it safely & with kindness! What is important to be mindful of is the child’s rocky start and the physiological effect that’s had as well as the psychological.

I know it's been traumatic for them, I feel awful. This is why providing high structure must be done in a calm, self-regulated manner (parent remaining calm, with body language that conveys love and self-confidence). The trauma and neglect they encountered before they came to live with us actually altered their brains and brain chemistry. Oh, man!

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account. I salute you and know these kids will find their way.

I don't have either of those things (didn't know what they were) I have done everything on my own so far. It’s hard not to lose my cool when my kid uses a paper clip to rip holes in her school clothes for the umpteenth time.

Build respite (breaks from your child) into your family’s life. Or a MARAC?

If we remember that cortisol, of which these children have high levels of, is ‘ten times more addictive than cocaine, the child lives with a constant feeling of fight or flight. When is the last time your boss/friend/etc actually punished you? Child development stages: Ages 0-16 years.


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At the center of most therapeutic parenting strategies for parenting traumatized children and those with attachment challenges is the concept of maintaining a highly structured AND highly nurturing environment. And it’s true.

Something to keep in mind is PACE.

National Association of Therapeutic Parents. If you are not able to go out, why not watch a #ScaryMovie instead?!

Giving them positive attention and compliments only encourages them to act out, and punishing them by yelling or taking away toys seems to have no impact (I once removed every single item from the kids’ room and told them they had to earn their things back. The patience you possess (or force yourself to muster) is beyond heroic. Establishing boundaries and routines are a must. So nicely written.

Great article. But structure without nurture can feel cold and punishing.

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But remember that you are the greatest catalyst for your child’s healing. ‘Therapeutic parenting is especially developed for parenting children who manifest special needs, whether they be based on stressful or traumatic life events or constitutional factors.’, Therapeutic parenting skills differ from traditional parenting skills in that there’s no time out or any form of corporal punishment. Overview and implementation of some therapeutic strategies. Sticker and reward charts are useless… Middle figures out how to manipulate them with amazing competence, and Little doesn’t seem to care whether or not he gets stickers or rewards.

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